Okay, it happened. You were happy with your busy life – a hectic 5 days job, family friends to chill out with, and zillion of responsibilities to fulfill, but the moment you looked into his eyes – you fell in love. You couldn’t get an escape from his thoughts and went on a fight with your inner self who has been craving for that guy much younger than you. And you finally, gave in. You ended up in taking this step to date a younger man.
Well, firstly, relax your inner demons – just calm down those fussy thoughts and disgust feeling. I know it seems unusual, especially at this stage of life, but it’s completely fine to date a younger man if you both are into this. It is, in fact, a good way to know about yourself and see towards life with a new perspective.
Sounds interesting? Let’s check out a matter of things you can experience being an old cougar involved into younger men dating:
1. You sense Equality
Regardless of how liberal men of your age and standard would have been, it’s a fact that they would have been considered themselves above you. They would have been living with the myth that they have to protect you – no matter what happens.
This might be comforting sometimes, but would make you feel being a beautiful bird in a golden cage a few times later. Whereas, when you are with a younger guy, things would be utterly different.
He would be caring, generous, and protective, but will give you equal treatment in the relationship. He will make you feel that you are a wheel of this relationship – without labeling as the front one or the back one. He will be ready to have you pay sometimes or put forth your ideas above him. This sense of equality will make you happy, content, and life-loving.
Isn’t this what you want?
2. You do not struggle with Baggages
This is another great thing about being in a relationship with someone from the present generation that they are open-minded. They do not judge you for your old relationships, your decisions, and appearance. Besides, they do not hold grudges against you or get offended too early if you say/do something hurtful. They take the things casually and come back to you soon.
This, as a whole, gives you a relationship free from baggages and the freedom to enjoy every single moment being you.
3. You gain Confidence
When you are into younger men dating, you often get the dominating role. You get the chance to decide what to do and when. You pay the bills, make plans, and get the best treatment for you too – something that often guys do for their partners.
This feeling of dominance will boost your confidence and encourage you to show the same attitude in your professional life also – ultimately resulting into better personal and professional life.
Above all, you get an opportunity to relive your youth – to relish those moments when you were setting the world on fire with your beauty and attitude.
So what’s on your mind now? Are you looking into how to date a younger man? If so, go ahead.
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